What is reality? Is it a scary place where life kicks you when you are down? Is it the unrelenting waves crashing on the sandy beach? Or is reality what we want it to be? Is it possible that reality could be a place of joy and happiness? Can it be the wind blowing gently through the tall grass on a sunny day? In the end reality is reality. But my reality is different than your reality and your reality is different from her reality or even his. My reality is where I live, I shape my reality, we all shape our reality. So lets live in the best reality possible. Lets end the suffering and the pain that we cause ourselves, because we are the only ones who can change us, we are in control of our reality.